Do not wait for remorse, hoping you didn’t give your heart to a sociopath. You’re wasting precious time. Yes there are people who have no sense of accountability. They never feel any guilt or remorse for their own actions. You think you know someone has a good heart, but you’re just being manipulated.
I heard the best description of gaslighting today, I’m improvising but it’s something like…
You know when your gas light comes on, you know you need gas, but then someone tells you… no you’re crazy you just think you need gas and they are the expert in gas and crazy and they are only telling you what to do to help you… but you know very well what’s going on with the gas light.
The best thing to do is surround yourself with support and block that negative insecure irrational person from your life forever. Otherwise they will work every moment of your life, to make you forget how they abused every part of yourself, that you gave them.