Who do you love!?

If you don’t love yourself, do you even know how to love? 💖 Does it even matter who you love, if you didn’t love yourself first? Did you know that what you love in others is just a reflection of how you see yourself?

13 years to train a child and then you just pray they make the right choices.. sorry but in my experience after 13 you’re f*****! Let them make their own mistakes but keep them away from bad influences, especially family!!! They learn how to let people treat them from us, this is the most important lesson. If I didn’t make so many mistakes and learn from them, I might not know this and my daughter wouldn’t either. It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s not okay to continue to make them and never change.

They will repeat your mistakes, if you don’t evolve. Call me a B**** all you want but the proof is in the children. If we cannot be their safe space, they’ll always be searching for one. If you have to have a man to do everything, that’s what they’re going to think they need to do. Whatever you put up with, they’ll put up with too. Love yourself first, so they’ll love themselves too.